Birch Wind
2 months ago
@Tobias is there a fluctuation with frndk.de? Sometimes I can not post at all, it just hangs completely. This morning seems better, but yesterday the average posting time (for my posts to appear after hitting submit) were 10+ seconds. At hipatia.net they were 2 seconds. Ive sort of been away from frndk.de lately because of the severe lag. Have there been some problems on your end? I imagine that the more people that join, the laggier things become, is that the reason why? Today seems much better however.
7 comments show more
Tobias
2 months ago
Sure :-) It's as good as any other to describe the behavior.
Birch Wind
2 months ago
@Paul Taylor , I am VERY technical (in a very challenged sort of way)
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Peter_ca


Image/photo
5 comments show more
Birch Wind
2 months ago
I have thoroughly confused myself. Happens easily when having multiple accounts, lol. And no, I do not know ANY german, haha. Yes, diasp0ra is very slow right now,this started happening after many people suddenly started to join it to check out @Pistos features. I am also at friendika.hipatia.net as well.
Birch Wind **
2 months ago from Diaspora
This is so funny, to see my friendika.hipatia conversation with you here at diasp.org while discussing diasp0ra.ca . ahhhhh federation!
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Saumya
Image/photoDenali Highway, AlaskaPhotograph by Rich Reid
Image/photoArctic RainbowPhotograph by Paul Nicklen
Image/photoAustralian RainbowPhotograph by Randy Olson
Image/photoTanzania RainbowPhotograph by Carsten Peter
Image/photoRainbow, Purple SkyPhotograph by Paul Nicklen
random #nature #rainbow #photographySource:Patterns in Nature: Rainbows
Wow, double rainbows. Even though I live in a tropical country, seeing double, triple, or quadruple rainbows is sooooo rare. I've only witnessed it once - double then turned triple. It was supposed to go quadruple but the 4th one only formed half way, and it was not as bright as the other three.
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Saumya


Image/photo
Saumya
2 months ago from Diaspora
Thanks for the add :)
Birch Wind
2 months ago
You're welcome! Thanks for the request!
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with O'Ha!


Image/photo
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with theInyan


Image/photo
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Manuel Perez


Image/photo
Birch Wind
2 months ago
zottel
Christmas time, time for donations.

I've just donated to Friendica. It's worth it, and it's worth much more than what I donated.

@Mike is one hell of a developer, from user perspective (not only from there, of course). He answers all questions, and requests for quick fixes (and sometimes even for big stuff) are honored extremely quickly, often within a day. I've never seen such a level of responsiveness at any other open source project. Just today I mentioned a bug just to see it fixed less than two hours later.

I'm not the easy user, quick to point out problems and bugs, not always in a manner that shows how grateful I am (like recently with the Diaspora PMs feature :-) ) for what Mike and @Fabio Comuni and other contributors do for my Friendica experience.

This is the time to say thank you! Thanks a lot for all the time you spend on the Friendica project.

Open source distributed social networks are extremely important for privacy and free speech. My favorite is Friendica, so I donated there. But whichever network you use, support it! Donate to the Diaspora project, donate to the people who run the Friendica server or Diaspora pod you are using! Don't take this for granted!

Give something back, even if it is just a few Euros or Dollars.
Martin Farrent
2 months ago
Good idea! Thanks for reminding us.
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Martin Farrent


Image/photo
Birch Wind
2 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Haakon Meland Eriksen


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind
3 months ago
David Benfell
Honesty without compassion and understanding, is not honesty, but subtle hostility. -- Emma Goldman
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Image/photo

updated Crossing Powell ( @David Benfell )
3 comments show more
Birch Wind
3 months ago
here is the pic in big size:http://frndk.de/photo/2a8a0c03fc072dea9b9a56a85b0c7592-0.jpg seems to be a travel place of some sort.
A lot of Vancouver is like that,the poverty ridden and drug addicted walk amongst Gucci adorned socialites. It's beautiful and sad, all at the same time.
David Benfell
3 months ago
I see now. You'll find shops like this in San Francisco Bay Area cities as well. Entrepreneurs of non-dominant heritage who dabble in multiple enterprises, trying to prosper in an intensely capitalistic society. In a way it makes sense; such shops typically appeal to immigrant communities, so the more services the proprietor can provide to a market with a shared language, the more opportunities (s)he has to turn a buck.

The shop also sells ice cream, [soda] pop (soft drinks), snacks, and (of course) beer. In the Bay Area, one would expect such proprietors to also offer phone cards, cell phones, money orders, and money wire services (money sent to countries of origin is often a significant portion of their economies).
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Hm.. a bit of time before I retire early tonight... LOTRO or Ryzom? hmmm (maybe even GW) I am horrible at all but enjoy them quite a bit.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
(OvO)
Fred Herzog
Crossing Powell
Vancouver, British Columbia,...

Image/photo

Fred Herzog
Crossing Powell
Vancouver, British Columbia, 1984
From Fred Herzog: Photographs
David Benfell
3 months ago
The sign says, PLAYGROUND: STOP WHEN OCCUPIED.

Is the playground in the street? Or are drivers supposed to crane their necks to look into a playground that located along the street to see if they should stop?
Birch Wind
3 months ago
The playground was down the street. To the right of the man in the image. Creating status update with todays image.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Okay, I gotta say, this is fun... so, from Friendica, I am posting to people on Diaspora, and on Diaspora ran into someone who is actually here on Friendica, and turns out we are both on buddycloud and from Diaspora I see myself talking about this with someone here at Friendica, and actually, it's not that confusing, just very funny... feels like social-whoring LMAO
Birch Wind
3 months ago
I decided to forgo perfection when taking this pic and instead go with 'natural' because after 5 or 6 shots, I realized ONE of them would always end up being blurry. LOL. My 17 year old was here visiting the past two nights.

Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Mike
We now have private messages (including replies) between Friendica and Diaspora.

Enjoy.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Michael Johnston


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Twitter / Demon_Writer
Demon_Writer: I will need to come up with a catchy name. Gnostic Tarot is already taken.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Electro Freak


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Been stepping back from things a bit last two days. Thanks for the responses to my last post.
@Mike

I see it! #Personal tab in Network. Very awesome. Totally! Thank you.
@Tobias and Mike, is Friendica loading very slowly today, or is it just the frndk.de server? Every few moments the page completely locks up and stops responding.
13 comments show more
Tobias
3 months ago
That's nasty of the extensions. That's one more reason why I prefer Opera then - no need for me for extra addons in the browser ;-)
Paul Taylor
3 months ago
I am getting persistent nasty lag in #uzbl [different web engine and no addons]. I don't think this problem is a browser one.
#uzbl
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Sometimes I have nothing intelligent to say, and so I say nothing. (though this is rare, I'm almost ALWAYS bound to say something)...Sometimes, I have things that I THINK are intelligent to say, but after I say them, I find myself rethinking the purpose behind them. I mean really.... do I go on these sites and post stuff with the inner hope that someone will say "Hey, good post!", or "wow man... that was deep!".... am I looking for likes, kudos, props etc., only because most of the time I feel like a total failure and need reassurance from a bunch of strangers that I'm NOT ? 
Maybe.

The reality is, I sit in front of a lap top, posting a bunch of bullshit, looking for ego-stroking. Sure, I can fool myself into thinking that I'm writing stuff that actually makes a difference or makes someone happy, or makes someone think... but most of the time I think I only do it for a pat on the head. 

Because in my real life I am a stay at home mom, with two young children that often have me pulling my hair out. I also have three older children, two that are doing very well and still live here also... and a 17 year old son who I couldn't raise any more and had to send to his dad's recently. 
I haven't graduated from highschool.
I don't know how to swim, and I can't drive a car.
I know sweet nothing about computer programming, and don't really enjoy following politics.

Yep, I'm spiritual. I am working toward a ministry within a contemporary Gnostic organization. Gnostic means to 'Know' to really, really know.. to know yourself... amongst other things... and sometimes when I look at how I spend my time online, I realize that all I do is avoid knowing myself.

The moon is high. It's time to sleep.
4 comments show more
David Benfell
3 months ago
The challenge I'm seeing here is to respond to what is said, to what is not said, and to the deeper implications of all of this.

First, I notice some self-deprecation about education and intelligence. Being a Ph.D. student in Human Science, I think I'm in a position to say something about this.

Intelligence is a social construction. The various measuring instruments (like IQ tests) measure a particular kind of literacy and most people I encounter discount them. Mostly you are considered intelligent because the people around you consider you intelligent. Yes, that's circular. It's also how social constructions work (they actually make no sense whatsoever outside a social context).

Which means that when we speak of intelligence, we are really speaking of other people's judgments of us.

Which brings me to the principal expression in this posting, a concern both that one is seeking approval and that one might not truly merit it. There are a lot of self-righteous folks who will tell you that you shouldn't be concerned by this. But the fact is that we are human and we are social animals. Honestly, that means that other people's judgments matter a great deal.

But since you are a woman, I'm guessing you know what it is to be judged superficially. Intelligence, as a social construction, is really another one of those superficial judgments.

Even though it might sound trite, @Mike is right to say what he says. The explanation for this involves a bit of a detour. Hopefully it will become clear soon enough.

One of the concepts I've been having to synthesize recently appears in books both by the Dalai Lama and by Erich Fromm. Both of these authors write of love as a necessary foundation for human relations, not just with those close to us, but also with those who are not so close.

The trouble is that there are many kinds of love and so it is difficult to really know what Fromm and the Dalai Lama mean when they use the term. I'm now having to read a work principally by Bill Moyer.

Though I am not in accord with Moyer's approach to activism (not that he's wrong, but I have to consider a broader view), Moyer exemplifies a moral standpoint (bolstered by his seminary training and the speaking style of an old Baptist preacher) grounded not in right wing evangelism but in a sense that as a human, you are not just deserving, not just entitled, but you are due a respect and decency from me as a human. And vice versa. I think that that's on the way to what Fromm and the Dalai Lama are talking about when then write about love.

And I'm guessing that's really what most of us are here for.
@Mike
Randal Matheny
3 months ago
Our limitations provide plenty of fodder for self-deprecation, but even significant accomplishments won't chase away the niggling thoughts in the dark of the night that we're just not up to what we were meant to be.

So we search out affirmations from others. But we know they're in the same boat as we are, so their approbation doesn't ultimately satisfy. Our value then doesn't depend upon whether others approve of (and by that approval, praise) us.

Both as creatures who were brought into being by God, as his ultimate creation, and who in Christ were given the opportunity of redemption, have we been given value that we may recognize in ourselves and in others.

With that, we may both respect one another as creatures who are loved by God and invested with importance because he desires us, as well as seek his approval, while at the same time we seek to call attention, not to our nor to others' qualities or defects, but to his character, which has been summed up in his glory. This, too, is our glory.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Silner Wilner


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Teo⚓Mat


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
I set up the twitter connection, but I can't respond to people from twitter, only from status.net, is there something I need to do?
4 comments show more
Charles Roth
3 months ago
Ok so if twitter is enabled for your posts no worries, if not you have to remember to check the twitter box when trying to send a message or reply there (obviously)

if you follow the twitter contact at friendica:
*you can retweet by hitting the recycle symbol on the post and adding an @ symbol infront of her username
*you can reply @blahblah

essentially any @ that doesn't match a friendica user name will go through to sn and twitter as @users there.
Tobias
3 months ago
It's just post the first 140 characters of my posting (stripped from formatation and multimedia stuff) and add an link to the ~friendica ~friendica posting to Twitter ;-)

And sometimes the big T. decides it does like to accept the note we send them for publishing, in a similar manner it decides it does not want to accept notices from StatusNet, but I haven't found a pattern in it's behaviour :-/
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with taha ** طه


Image/photo
3 comments show more
Charles Roth
3 months ago
**waves** hello taha
taha ** طه
3 months ago from Diaspora
Hello to you too charles #friendika #federation #yay
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Chris Case


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
I havent logged in since yesterday or the day before and there were 900+ 'Network' items. I am having a very hard time keeping up with this.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
herzmeister
The Life of a Software EngineerImage/photo
view full size

[ #software #engineer #developer #dev ]
David Benfell
3 months ago
I'm trying to think of just the right snarky comment on this.

It's always been a problem. In my day, we complained about "spaghetti code".
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with dej


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Pawan Neupane


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind
3 months ago

Matthew Good Band - Strange Days Music Video by mimadalaer on YouTube

Off to see Matthew Good tonight. This was the first song I fell in love with.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with miguel@ilikefreedom.org


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Isn't the 'link to source' button supposed to take me to the original post? I could swear that's what I used to do, but it doesn't seem to be working.
3 comments show more
David Benfell
3 months ago
On friendica, I notice that if the post is a repeat, it takes you to your own copy, which probably will not have the original link.

That's why when I repeat posts with links in them, I preface with something from my URL shortener, which alas, is now not working. (In the process of fixing Friendica on the Linode, I broke it, and I don't know how.)
Birch Wind
3 months ago
It's working now, but earlier it wasn't working at all. If I clicked on the 'link to source' nothing opened, nothing happened etc. Often when a diaspora friend post something, I chose to click the link to source so that i can post directly on D... today it didn't feel like working for me.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Birch Wind is now friends with Space Mach


Image/photo
Birch Wind
3 months ago
Mike
My only comments on the shitfight that erupted yesterday on D* are this:

There's a lot of pressure from a lot of people who want everything and they want it now. This relentless pressure to be all things to all people has already cost one life.

If you do not like a particular free web project, there are many others to choose from, with different licenses, governance, and philosophy. I believe I can speak for the Diaspora team in saying that we would all be better off (you included) if you invested your energy helping a project you believe in, rather than hindering one that you don't. Either way, there's a lot of work ahead for all of us.
Birch Wind
3 months ago
May there be peace in the heavens, peace in the atmosphere, peace on the earth. Let there be coolness in the water, healing in the herbs and peace radiating from the trees. Let there be harmony in the planets and in the stars, and perfection in eternal knowledge. May everything in the universe be at peace. Let peace pervade everywhere, at all times. May I experience that peace within my own heart.
— Yajur Veda 36.17
first  1  2  3 last next
Report Bug